You love each other but things are not easy right now.

You and your partner have tried the same thing over and over and it’s just not working. Things started out good at first but now you feel disconnected, hurt, resentful, and discouraged.

Perhaps your circumstances have changed, your lives are more stressful, issues have piled up and you feel like you have grown in different directions.

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You may feel…

  • Like you’re having the same fight over and over again without resolution
  • Your partner has pulled away from you and you’re not sure why
  • Lack of connection, closeness, and like you’re not on the same page
  • Resentful of them for not attending to your needs in the way you would like
  • Little things seem to escalate quickly and become big things
  • That you’re living separate lives in the same household
  • Sex has dwindled and you’re not happy about it

You want things to get better.

You’ve been through a lot together and want to continue to work on this. You’re not ready to give up yet but you’re wondering if you’re meant to be together or if there is still hope for things to be different.

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Communication

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Managing household tasks

Making decisions

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It doesn’t have to be like this any longer.

It will take some work, but you both are committed to making things better. It may feel messy to put your feelings out on the table, but you deserve to be heard and understood.

I make sure the conversation stays balanced and that each person feels safe enough to speak their truth. I take a practical, straightforward approach to getting you back on track.

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You’re ready to…

  • Break destructive cycles by understanding what is really going on
  • Learn new ways to communicate that are honest and kind
  • Look at your past to see how it may be influencing the current dynamic between you both
  • Foster a loving, lasting connection with your partner where each of your needs are attended to
  • Come up with creative solutions or compromises to achieve peace and harmony
  • Each be held accountable for your part in why this isn’t working
  • Understand yourself and your partner in a completely different way
  • Get on the same page about issues you disagree upon
  • Build intimacy and get closer to each other emotionally and physically

Find your way back to each other.

There is hope.

I have helped many couples reconnect and revive their relationships and creating lasting change.

Your relationship is worth giving it the care and attention it deserves.

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Enough of the suffering. Let’s work together to get you out of pain and back to joy!